Two posts for one today. I just wanted to add this post before the end of the year. This is a time I have set aside to celebrate the birth of Christ and the upcoming anniversary with my husband. My mind is racing with what the future holds.
We were so young when we began this journey of life together. Reflecting over the years we realize there have been too many times we put things off until later. At our age, later is here. Leading a caregiver support group means hearing a lot of stories that ring true for us. Too many of my caregivers talk about the plans for their retirement years that unraveled due to Alzheimer’s invading their life.
We are choosing to do a few of the things we enjoy that we can afford to do.
- slow down and enjoy sunsets
- sit by the firepit and watch meteor showers
- fish on a pretty day
- garden
- tend our sheep
- visit with our friends
- take a drive in the country
- volunteer
- eat when hungry….sleep when tired
You get the idea. We have a lower income now so we are learning to be content with what we have. All of us look ahead and face a question. How long do we have? Make the most of your time.
Caregivers have an uncertain future with their spouse. My dad learned to put my mom’s makeup on. Another man I know bought his wife who was in the late stage of Alzheimer’s a doll. Every night he tucked the “baby” in after she kissed him goodnight. Your love for each other will not die. You just learn to express it in a different way.
Sometimes the unexpected changes hold hidden blessings. Look for your blessings.
Word for Today
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
Song For Today
Prayer for Today
Dear God,
We are so blessed by you. We praise you for the many blessings you have given us.
Amen
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