As long as I have the ability to write words of encouragement and hope for caregivers, I will write. You are people who understand that life isn’t fair. You are on the front line engaged in battle daily taking care of someone who has Alzheimer’s. It is a disease that attacks everyone. It crosses lines of privilege, oppression, income, race and gender. It robs you of a relationship that you treasure.
You are too busy taking care of someone who needs you to even watch the news and you are not marching to protest the unfairness. Many of you have given up your rights to spend your money on pleasure, your rights to earn a living, your rights to see your dreams come true. You suffer in silence and loneliness as you meet the needs of those who cannot help themselves. You even feel guilty when you can’t give more than you do.
Most of you do what you do because you understand a deeper love than many people will ever experience. Many of you find your strength in God. I write this blog because I know that is where I find my strength. I make no apologies for openly sharing my faith. If I could wrap my arms around you to comfort you I would.
You don’t have to walk this out alone. God is in this with you, just reach out and embrace His love. You are a beautiful person or you would not be doing what you are doing. You may face guilt, anger and even pain. These feelings are a part of you. Ask God to show you how to handle each day. Stay true to yourself by following God’s lead.
Here are a few helpful tips for filling the long hours.
Give a hand massage.
Listen to favorite music and color or paint.
Look at old pictures.
Play cards. ( who cares if rules are followed)
Feed the birds
Sit on the porch and sip lemonade
Model with play dough
Take a walk
Enjoy an ice cream cone
Find a way to smile!
Word for Today
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
Song for Today
Prayer for Today
Dear God,
I come today knowing you are my comfort and my strength. You understand my daily struggles and you care about me. When I get frustrated and tired help me remember that I am not in this alone. Show me how to serve and consider it an act of service to ones I truly love. Heal my hurts so that I can carry on.
I praise you for the hope I rest in because of you.
Amen
Walking Them Home 