As caregivers we often forget that perhaps we are in the greatest ministry we will ever be asked to do when we provide care for someone who needs it so very much. God reminds me of this often. A beautiful lady lives in the facility near my home. On my first encounter with her, she was sitting quietly reading her Bible. As time passed she lost the ability to read and to talk. One day I walked with her to her room and noticed the beautiful quilts on the bed and wall. She was pleased that I talked about them. This was the first of many visits. One day when I walked into the living room area I saw her coming down the hall. She started smiling and laughing as she made her way to me. My heart was overcome with joy. It truly made my day. Then as I sat by her side she reached over and patted my knee and gave me a half smile. Fighting tears, I smiled back. She had no way of knowing that my mom had the same smile and often patted the knee of a grandchild to show love.
The greatest ministry I have ever done was when I was the weakest. Full of fear, uncertainty, heartache and feelings of inadequacy I stepped into being a caregiver. I, an ordinary woman, was able to do extraordinary things empowered and led by my extraordinary God. Today marks the fourth anniversary of Mom’s passing. God was faithful to see us through.
Remember on the days that are difficult that all you do is as unto the Lord. Sometimes the greatest ministers are those we call unsung heroes. They minister behind closed doors. Changing adult diapers, handling behavior issues, making finances balance and missing out on fun with friends doesn’t feel rewarding or great. The rewards in heaven will be amazing. Just imagine hearing the words, “well done my good and faithful servant”.
Remember that God is extraordinary and He is right beside you. He sees your struggles. He sees your failures. He sees you burden. He is there to help you carry it.
Remember that caregiver is for a season. When it ends, you will look back and see it was perhaps the greatest ministry you ever did as well. Caring for the two beautiful people below is one of the highest honors God has given me. That season has ended but my heart overflows with joy for the time I had with them.
Word for Today
When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ Matthew 25:39-40
Song for Today
Prayer for Today
God,
I come to you today humbled to be your servant in this ministry to my loved one. Care giving is such a demanding ministry that tests me daily. I need answers. I need courage and I need strength. I know I will make mistakes. I know I will lose my cool and get frustrated. I ask for forgiveness on the days that I mess up. Help me lo love with the same compassion that Jesus loves me with.
Help me to see that in your eyes my obedience is what counts. Help me to remember that this is about putting the needs of others ahead of my own. Give me hope when I forget. Help me to serve until I hear your voice welcoming me with “well done”.
Amen
Walking Them Home 